tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.comments2023-08-02T10:21:07.060-04:00Unashamed. An Open Bookaziza kibibihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-87666583339676200292023-08-02T10:21:07.060-04:002023-08-02T10:21:07.060-04:00Greetings Ms. Blume. Thank you for your comment an...Greetings Ms. Blume. Thank you for your comment and clarification. The topic of the aftereffects of incestuous abuse is extremely complicated. Even more so considering the lack of survivors willing to contribute to the conversation to give more insight. I do hope to encourage more open study into the matter. If you are interested in discussing further, please feel free to email me at aziza@pllnonprofit.org. Thank you for your work. aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-25795946618467563042023-08-02T00:50:25.833-04:002023-08-02T00:50:25.833-04:00Hello, this is E. Sue Blume.
First I want to say ...Hello, this is E. Sue Blume. <br />First I want to say how very sorry I am that you had to endure abuse. Second, please let me clarify: what I have said from the beginning is that one needs to experience the *majority* of the items on my Incest Survivors Aftereffects Checklist” before incest can be suspected as based on the list. Your criticisms are not uncommon but they are based on a general misrepresentation of my work by the media and certain critics in the field.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-70368544928364568802023-05-29T21:54:21.558-04:002023-05-29T21:54:21.558-04:00Aziza.. You are extremely beautiful and very sexy....Aziza.. You are extremely beautiful and very sexy. I myself have a strong feminine sexuality and feel empowered by it but in a subtle way as I'm getting older due to my close connection and relationship with God. Your beauty, intelligence and triumphant being inspire me in every single way and I see my God in you. Or His creation is truly stamped creatively on you. Praise Him forever for you and honestly the entire world of existence. I am so very sorry for all of the trauma and pain that has been inflicted upon you by your father. But you know, all works for the Good for those who Love Him. Most people will not understand the complicated nature of your experiences and how they relate to you now. Especially sexually. But I understand it; or have an understanding of it. Spread yourself across this world. Provide it with your feminine and divinely "sexual" self. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-88977100877691693382022-06-23T08:05:44.784-04:002022-06-23T08:05:44.784-04:00Greatt read thankyouGreatt read thankyouShirley Mhttps://www.shirleymarsh.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-3229462869676034252020-01-26T18:58:03.717-05:002020-01-26T18:58:03.717-05:00This was beautiful, helpful, and extremely eye-ope...This was beautiful, helpful, and extremely eye-opening. I wish you luck on your journey. Thank you again for your words.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-14531349156916777062019-07-01T06:43:06.789-04:002019-07-01T06:43:06.789-04:00DO YOU WISH TO BE A VAMPIRE OR YOU WANT POWERS AND...DO YOU WISH TO BE A VAMPIRE OR YOU WANT POWERS AND PROTECTION COME AND BE AMONG THE VAMPIRES KINGDOM TODAY AND YOU GET WHAT EVER YOU DESIRE CONTACT LORD SHAKA AT ( lordshakavampirekingdom@gmail.com )<br />Being a vampire has certain limitations, but it can also be a ton of fun. Your extra strengths and abilities can make you successful in almost every endeavor you participate in and before you know it the money and acquaintances will come streaming in. You can build wealth and gain prestige and notoriety and attempt things you may never have even considered as a human. One thing you will definitely have more of is time. Beef up your education and learn all you ever wanted to. Travel the world to see things most people only ever see on TV This is going to be especially fun if you turned to share your life with one of us. Let us show you the wonders of the world. Learn new languages, go skydiving or scuba dive with sharks, visit the African safari. You no longer need to be scared of nature or wildlife you will have become the worlds strongest predator. Have fun with it and your life as a vampire can be more fulfilling than you ever dreamed. Explore, experiment, experience and get excited. There’s a big world out there with lots to see and do and as a vampire, you can do it all, if willing and ever ready to be a full blooded vampire with powers and mighty great skills then these is the opportunity for you to get transformed and turned into a vampire, contact the mighty Lord Shaka and also he is a vampire lord, find him on his email and lay your request and heart wishes to him, trust me you will find him on;( lordshakavampirekingdom@gmail.com ).John Phillipshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12976337316073609575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-11064168591966388652014-01-16T08:49:36.800-05:002014-01-16T08:49:36.800-05:00Hello Aziza,
You have a hell of a story yet an am...Hello Aziza,<br /><br />You have a hell of a story yet an amazing story. You will soon have people coming out of the wood works trying to assist you. Your task will be to filter thrrough and determine who to trust and who not to trust as it relates to lawyers and literary agents. <br /><br />I cannot phanthom your journey so I will not dare say I understand. I will say that my prayers are continually with you and will support you where I can. Inbox me on fb. I am neither a lawyer or a literary agent but would love to be connected to a super hero.....pghammond2000@yahoo.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-26776516680703212662014-01-10T15:50:19.028-05:002014-01-10T15:50:19.028-05:00I never read blogs. And I never comment on anythin...I never read blogs. And I never comment on anything. <br /><br />You have made your impact on me. Massively. You have shown me that with faith, one can forgive and live God's plan. You have been persecuted and you still prevail. Sounds like someone else we all know. Initials are J.C :)<br /><br />I am Humbled by you. Thank you for teaching me so much today.<br /><br />Denise (area code 416)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-11771067031247308492014-01-10T06:39:09.901-05:002014-01-10T06:39:09.901-05:00Dear Aziza,
I too was sexually abuse by my father...Dear Aziza,<br /><br />I too was sexually abuse by my father, and most of my life I thought my self to be a victim of my circumstances..and I told my self I was a survivor but even this is not healing to me..I am more than a survivor , I am a child of God, and this entitles me to miracles. I have being going on a healing process most of my life and I've come to the understanding that feeling like a victim only serves me to keep holding on the the suffering. I have learn through A Course In Miracles ..Who I AM. And this has empower me to create the life that God has intended me to live, and I learned that my function is to forgive myself, the people that I perceived hurt me and forgive the world I see. My pain is real and I honor it . However My suffering is a choice and I finally understood that my power is in the CHOICE I make for myself. I choose Love. <br /><br />Here is a practice I do to help me let go of all the suffering and embrace my power. Hope it helps you, I do believe Forgiveness is the key to peace of mind. I am on Facebook if you want to be friend me I would be honor I extend my love to you, because i now know we are really ONE. Here is the work from Iyanla Vanzant I am grateful to share her teaching here with you.LET US PRAY<br />Dear God:<br />Teach me to forgive myself so that my heart will open to forgive others.<br />Free me from all forms of guilt, self-doubt, anger and fear so that I will know the true meaning of trust.<br />Remind me of the good I am, the good I have, the good I deserve. <br />Let good be the filter through which I see the world and all other people.<br />Open my mind dear God so the all that I thought was wrong can be transformed into wisdom and power.<br />Teach me God. <br />Heal me.<br />Remind me that all that I am, all that I have, all that I have seen and heard and known are blessings of your love.<br />Today, I rest in Thee.<br />And So It Is!<br /><br />DO THE WORK<br />Complete each of the following statements<br />with the first thought that comes to mind.<br /> <br />Today I am struggling to forgive myself for ___________________<br /><br />Today I am ready to forgive myself for ___________________<br /><br />I realize if I do not forgive myself I will continue to feel ___________________<br /><br />I forgive myself for thinking ____________<br /><br />I forgive myself for believing ___________<br /><br />I forgive myself for feeling _____________<br /><br />Today, I am willing to forgive myself for ___________________<br /><br />AFFIRMATION<br />Today, I commit to walk the path of self-forgiveness in support of my healing, growth and evolution. I send you Love and Light Cynthia Orlando cynthia orlandohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07929204936761228009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-26587005370146247122014-01-10T03:11:43.649-05:002014-01-10T03:11:43.649-05:00Will do Ebony. Thanks luv. Will do Ebony. Thanks luv. aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-9162271935493502912014-01-10T03:11:20.654-05:002014-01-10T03:11:20.654-05:00Thank you Symboii. You as well :-} Thank you Symboii. You as well :-} aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-12230055135618960102014-01-10T03:07:03.234-05:002014-01-10T03:07:03.234-05:00Hi Liz!
I've been told that I need an entertai...Hi Liz!<br />I've been told that I need an entertainment lawyer. I don't know if that makes sense. I signed up with Volunteer Lawyers for the Arts in NYC but they weren't much help. I will look into the law schools though. I never thought of that. <br />Thanks a bunch!aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-56022733018085540302014-01-10T03:04:15.267-05:002014-01-10T03:04:15.267-05:00Thank you Yuki!Thank you Yuki!aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-941827761318005692014-01-10T03:03:42.878-05:002014-01-10T03:03:42.878-05:00Hello Jeni!
Thank you so much. Your sentiments are...Hello Jeni!<br />Thank you so much. Your sentiments are very humbling. Thank you, And I am learning you are correct. Having people on my side is a far cry from what I am use to. I feel like i've been fighting alone for so long. Well God is on my side so I know I am not alone...but you know what I mean. Lol. aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-83305813382289182422014-01-10T02:53:17.845-05:002014-01-10T02:53:17.845-05:00Thank you luv. I will email you. Thank you luv. I will email you. aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-69715104614030819972014-01-10T02:51:00.894-05:002014-01-10T02:51:00.894-05:00Thank you for sharing sevensiseggroll (what was th...Thank you for sharing sevensiseggroll (what was the inspiration for that user name? lol). You have my sympathy and understanding. I did blame myself for a long time. I don't anymore and I hope you don't either. We are mirrors for each other, I see me in you and I hope you see you in me, positively. God bless and keep your head up!aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-21596161065194863642014-01-10T02:45:03.842-05:002014-01-10T02:45:03.842-05:00Thank you Somia for your comment. My father taught...Thank you Somia for your comment. My father taught me to not cry. He said it was a sign of self pity, which he loathed. Now that I am away from him, I don't really cry out of habit, but I allow myself to feel all of my emotions; and yes, sometimes it does come out in the form of tears. I am not afraid of my emotions because though sometimes they can lead us astray, I believe God gave them to us to help navigate and enjoy this existence. Thank you for your input and suggestions, they are a big help. I will email you. <br />Aziza aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-64065815162011647552014-01-10T02:40:34.809-05:002014-01-10T02:40:34.809-05:00Hi Vesta.
I told my son over two years ago. It...Hi Vesta. <br />I told my son over two years ago. It's funny because since this post he's been more receptive to communication. Thanks for you input. aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-46736529650630549322014-01-10T02:38:04.254-05:002014-01-10T02:38:04.254-05:00I messaged you Margo. Hope to hear from you soon. ...I messaged you Margo. Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks!aziza kibibihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451325487117124934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-65445099191281007842014-01-10T02:00:37.764-05:002014-01-10T02:00:37.764-05:00What type of lawyer do you need specifically? Depe...What type of lawyer do you need specifically? Depending on where you are, there are state and local bar associations where attorneys in particular practice areas list themselves as willing to do pro bono work in their field of specialization, if cost is a concern. There are also community legal aid programs, and they are usually affiliated with law schools, and that is something you might want to look into as well. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17809956080980804356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-14060872641077872842014-01-09T21:35:56.453-05:002014-01-09T21:35:56.453-05:00Just wanted to let you know you have my support. S...Just wanted to let you know you have my support. Sending you love & light. xoxo Yukihttp://facebook.com/yukisannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-13178182030849963082014-01-09T18:31:35.535-05:002014-01-09T18:31:35.535-05:00PS I just friended you on FB Jeni Shakti Fujita. &...PS I just friended you on FB Jeni Shakti Fujita. <3journey8https://www.blogger.com/profile/09884939369502618131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-46525228413391925642014-01-09T18:22:26.645-05:002014-01-09T18:22:26.645-05:00You are an amazing human being. I'm in awe of...You are an amazing human being. I'm in awe of the strength of your body and your mind. You definitely have my support! There are many who are on your side.journey8https://www.blogger.com/profile/09884939369502618131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-57939013064376373722014-01-08T20:44:59.701-05:002014-01-08T20:44:59.701-05:00I just read of your story today on another media s...I just read of your story today on another media site, I had to google your name, I wanted to hear your story. Funny I never heard your voice, today I heard you loud and clear. I hear you my sister, I hear you. I am a gang raped survior, and a fatherless daughter, and I ask my self all the time, why me? I was raped by my 2 boys who I thought was my friend when I was 16 years old, today im 45 and I still ask why. Aziza you have a purpose, and its bigger than yourself. I know how you feel in more ways than you know. My hand is geniuely extended to you when ever, if ever, im here. Mizzjayeg@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3867802509540983838.post-19624764130746716222014-01-07T19:03:28.106-05:002014-01-07T19:03:28.106-05:00As an incest victim. I feel your pain. My dad ha...As an incest victim. I feel your pain. My dad had a vasectomy so thought he would never get caught. Don't ever blame yourself. You are a survivor. Live your life and survive. Love yourself and be the best mother you can be. seveniseggrollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06142408939216142697noreply@blogger.com